Ever heard this song before?
We were strangers starting out on our journey
Never dreaming what we'd have to go through
Now here we are and I'm suddenly standing
At the beginning with you
No one told me I was going to find you
Unexpected what you did to my heart
When I lost hope you were there to remind me
This is the start.
We were strangers on a crazy adventure
Never dreaming how our dreams would come true
Now here we stand unafraid of the future
At the beginning with you.
I knew there was somebody somewhere
Like me alone in the dark
I know that my dream will live on
I've been waiting so long
Nothing's gonna tear us apart.
And Life is a road and I want to keep going
Love is a river I want to keep flowing
Life is a road now and forever
Wonderful journey
I'll be there when the world stops turning
I'll be there when the storm is through
In the end I wanna be standing
At the beginning with you
In the end I wanna be standing at the beginning with you
It's from Anastasia,
in case you were wondering. Credits.
It also happens to be an extremely cheesy song. Look at that
last line again? Talk about nonsensical garbage. But we like it anyway. It's
cute. It may be cheesy, but it's cute. So it doesn't matter.
EXACTLY.
Here's my problem with some outlooks: if a song has a serious
message and states it bluntly, we call it cheesy. Yet—and don't get my wrong, I
love this song—things like this with no decipherable meaning we think are cute
even though, yes, it's cheesy too.
What's with the double standard, people? Yeah, some songs
just sound horribly cheesy. There's no way to get around that. But don't
think that just because a song is teaching you good morals, it's also cheesy.
It's all about your perspective.
You may never be able to look at this song the same way
again. Sorry. But you're in control of how you allow music—or many other forms
of media—to reach you. If you'd like to blissfully ignore the uplifting things
around you simply because they make you feel all fuzzy inside (oh noes! the
fuzzies!) and that makes you feel soft or vulnerable or exposed, fine. But I
certainly wouldn't recommend it.
Remember that little chat we had about listening to yourself?
Your heart? Well, do it. And the fuzzies are your heart talking. Don't push it
away. Don't harden your heart—if you feel a little bullheaded as you read
this...well, that's the hardening. Oops.
I just say this because I happen to like cheesy
things. Romantic, no. Cheesy, yes. Songs and poems that teach you to do right.
And I think way too many people in this world seem to be afraid of changing
their hearts.
Friends will always see you through,
Believe in things you want to do,
Feel happy when your dreams come true,
Believe in things you want to do,
Feel happy when your dreams come true,
That's just the way friends are.
Friends will always be right there,
With wisdom, faith, and strength to share,
With love that shows how much they care,
That's just the way friends are.
Yeah. Super cheesy. But it makes me want to be a
better friend, and a better person. I love this poem. It's on my bedroom wall.
No kidding, it's lame and stupid by the world's standards, but that's because
the world has no standards. I do.
Your perspective is what matters. You can let everything be
cheesy, or a few things, or nothing. I choose to look past the cheesiness of
anything I find and if it has value, it's not cheesy. Not to me.
Don't push away the things that prick your heart. Your heart
always knows better than your mind.
***
Hmm. This is a bit weird. I want to disagree with this whole
post. I guess that's kind of the point. Instinctively, this post will be
rejected. You might need to test this one out before you decide what you think.
I have a terrible tendency to simplify things. This has been
really, really simplified. Things can be cheesy and likeable. You can
accept that something is cheesy, but also enjoy it.
Note: Not everything has value. I once took great pleasure in
ripping to shreds a piece of choir sheet music that was one of the worst pieces
I've ever had the displeasure to lay eyes on. Something about cheerful
butterflies?